I'm not married but I can tell you this, plain and simple and I'm not even gonna beat around the bush, WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED AND YOU ARE A FEMALE, you know what let me go deeper because for you to understand this its gonna take some explaining. OK so situation, your a female and your marriage is falling apart, you've done all you've can to get his attention and its not working. You tried to be more sexier, cook him his favorite meal, clean the house more than often, buy new clothes, new hairstyle, done the works and he is still not getting your attention. Some woman take this as an opportunity to flirt with another man just to get her man's/husband's attention and if that doesn't work it can turn into cheating. Now cheating is a well thought out process when it comes to a female, were not wired like male to just get up and sex the hottest thing in a skirt, no we have feeling and most of the time we get our feelings involved. There are however some woman who can just have casual sex for her pleasure and keep it moving, but were talking about females in a relationship. So you start flirting with other men in front of him, he doesn't notice and you feel some way, either you flirted and it wasn't reciprocated or it was and he still didn't notice or don't care. Now your panicking because you realize the spunk, the flame the fire is gone. so you develop a friend (most time its a male) from work, or at the gym or even at your church, you talk to them about your situation, and HE IS SINGLE, so he lends a friendly ear to your situation. In the mean while he could be A- plotting a way so that he can move in, which will be easy cause you gave him the que with the whole, I need relationship advice or someone to talk to when in fact that's what female friends are for, even if your trying to get a male prospective you get it from a family member or someone that isn't single. B- Men and female cant be just friends, there is always a guilty party who has some type of feelings for the other person unless there is a gay person in the mix, or the either or both parties are deeply in love. C-an ect of scenario's that I cant think of cause its a thin line. So as a woman you steer clear of the trying to get the husband/boyfriend jealous cause it always most likely gets thrown in your face. Especially if you have a psycho boyfriend who wants to kill anyone that looks or even touches their girlfriend, i call them boyfriend stalkers lol, their your boyfriend but they watch your every movement and will fight or get psycho at anytime anywhere no matter who. Lets face it, one a woman get emotionally attached to someone else who isn't their mate then you start really playing with fire, and your not wearing a firefighter suit on, so if I were you, I would slide down that pole and get out of that situation if your in one, its better to get a first degree burn, than a sixth one.
SO REPEAT AFTER ME, I WILL NOT TRY AND GET MY PARTNER JEALOUS BECAUSE IT WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS WORSE, I WILL TRY OTHER CREATIVE METHODS TO GET HIS ATTENTION.
As well as you can get a "friend" and when he shows interest dump your mate and move on, this advice does not apply to married couples. To the Married, I suggest you find the flame again, and learn new tricks, spice it up, never be boring, no matter how old, try something new, and that does not apply to swinging or adding a extra party to your bedroom, maybe a toy or new move, or new place just improvise. Most couples that are married and have alot of issues don't have sex, and its so common, and so obvious get the sex back before its too late. LADIES HANDLE YOUR IN THE BEDROOM, DON'T BE SHY, TAKE CONTROL, they love that.
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