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This is a Relationship Blog to give advice to those who are in a relationship crisis, and are emotionally retarded. If you have low self esteem, your lonely, shy, and need some advice this is the blog for you. This is like a relationship for dummies session but with a personal touch. I will answer each individuals questions with thought and compassion to each specific situation.


Friday, October 8, 2010

Disney Girl in lala land

This is a brief but informative attack on females that think fairytale relationships exist, sorry for being so blunt but sweety if this applies to you YOU NEED TO GET A CLUE, now you can only believe in those stories if you 10 maybe 12 but in this day and age you should know the difference between real and fake. Now don't throw stones if you live in a glass house, that is to say I once were in fairytale land, and thought my relationship was golden but boy did reality kick in and i got a rude awakening. The good thing about me is i have experienced my heart being broken before, even though this time was entirely different and i fell hard, face first on concrete reality bites and i got back on my game. Many females believe in the fairytale of love and blah blah blah and when your in that world your eyes are closed, shut tight like a blind bat. When in your in that situation its kinda hard to get out, because all along your mind is telling you " this is too perfect this cant be real" but your heart is enjoying the feeling and you get swept away, and what you have to realize is NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT not one, even your soul mate bugs you from time to time, but that is alright, that's NORMAL. That how regular relationships work out, you fight you make up and move on, that's life. So if your in one f those perfect perky relationship prepare for a downfall, and if you are reading this then you need yo put a stop to it before it gets worse, lets face it when you fight your true colors come out, if they still love you afterwards then yous in good standing, if not he wasn't meant for you, the real you.

Now if your one of the females who hasn't experienced it your in a fantasy world of denial, your longing and dreaming about the wrong thing. You are a female junkie who gets high of Disney movies and thinks that it happens just like that, and the sad part is you would put yourself in situations just so you can have movie moment. Granted i believe every female even my self loves a movie moment but not Disney movie moment, its so fake i can see the silicone on my TV screen, its like some weird liquid and when it bursts it bleeds out and the plastic that's left has melted away and form into the nothingness that is your nonexistent relationship. That type of female isn't ready for substance, something real and tangible and its truly sad. If you are like this and have not experience heartbreak, get in a relationship and give yourself entirely, if and when this happens then you truly survive in this dating world. However if you luck out, and when you have given yourself you had the love returned then congrats babes, that's a 10 in a million in this world, just think of yourself as winning the jackpot. So my point is, just be true and real in the beginning stages and if he sticks around then you would have know he is there for you and not a fake version of notyou.

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