Introduction The Art of Staying Together! (phase 1)

Relationships....well first off let me start of and Introduce myself, my Name is Carolyn but you can call me Lyn, I am 21 years old and have been through many relationships like yourself, or if your the shy long term relationship type then you have probably only seen about 2-3 depending on age. I am licensed in giving relationship advice because I say I am, I have many friends and have been called the female Dr Phil and Montel Jordan, and every decent relationship guru out there. People say I am too young to know this much, but its about paying close attention to peoples personalities, and it is just in my nature to do so. I take on this title and wear it proudly because I am almost never wrong. I love giving advice and my opinions are always welcomed, so if you feel I just "think" I know what I am talking about, challenge me and be amazed. I have many males friends and an open mind, I listen when they speak and read into their psyche. I have always paid close attention to body language, facial expressions,different tones and pitches in voices and the responses they give. Now that I gave you my resume, lets get started on the topic at hand, Staying together Phase 1... First I have been the one to walk away in almost all my relationships. See my personality is the type that gets bored easily, If I'm not fully entertained and given the proper amount of attention I am the first to walk away. THIS BEHAVIOR IS WRONG, I have learned in the past that you have to compromise and yes you have been told this before, but people still don't understand what that means, Compromise means letting one's self go and giving into the other just to please their partner, so in layman terms you have to let go and do things you don't feel like doing at times. So yes ladies that means watching the game, or your man play Madden and feeding him nachos, but don't think this doesn't go both ways men, for you this means taking trips to Sephora, and walking in the park, don't forget washing your girls hair etc. These are things that you start out doing just because you like your significant partner, and then it turns into things you enjoy because you love them. This is the most important step in the relationship, this can make or break the bond. Learning new hobbies, and doing what your partner loves to do, and appreciating them because this pleases your partner in the first place. This is just Phase 1 of getting to know your partner and keeping the relationship afloat!