Blues clues o_O

Every time I watch a love story, romance/drama or romance comedy I am enriched with thoughts, before I would be totally in awe, feeling alone and wanting something, but as of late I've been completely content on what I have going on in my life but that's just the peace the God has given me but thats another story. But what I want to discuss is the way movies are made, and I'm talking old movies like I just watched "say anything" and that came out 1989 the year after I was born which meant I was about 1 then and love wasn't at the top of my list, but the movie was inspiring touching and moving, it was about a young man who didn't have the balls to tell his crush that he "loved" her which then was more infatuation, but after graduation he did it, and they began dating, and they had their faults but they ended up together. The movie had me moved mostly because he displayed a man in love, some would call him a feen and I must say he had some feen like characteristics but he was a man none the less and impressed me to the utmost. What I hate about watching movies like this is wanted someone to do the exact same thing, and as women we have thing where we see a guy in a movie act exactly how men should act but don't we want the same thing, but in fact if that was the norm you would want more. Specifically for this film he didn't do much but he made her feel special by listening to her, not forcing her to have sex, not forcing her to even be in a relationship with him when that's what he wanted so desperately. He respected and waited and that should be a norm in today's society but sadly it isn't. Sometimes its best for us women to count these movies as fairy tales, and even though there aren't disney incorporated the might as well be.




If men would man up and be one there would be less lesbians and dikes, hell less gays even because they wouldn't see woman as crazy psychotic Beasts, but sweet gentle caring women who are independent and waiting for the love of a good man. I mean men get a clue, they been writing love stories for years and it seems like only a handful gets the message, I don't why men can't just grow up. This applys to high schoolers all the same, back in the day people in high school got married and that because they took love, and the love of a good woman seriously. Nowadays, its im young and wanna have fun, you can have fun alright and contract STD's. OK maybe im pushing it, but if your young focus on school then and leave grown folks business to grown folks. But if you wanna play like your grown and have a girlfriend, grow up and find one girl you could bring home to your mom instead of chasing these fast a$$ girls out here. You little boys are the reason these girls think their in competition, they feel they gotta outshine the next chick. So they wear skin tight clothes, makeup, and look more mature than their age. This process makes these little girls insecure, which is why they post 100 pics a day on facebook for attention, and sad thing is they are so pretty without the extraness. But I blame the dead beat daddies, who aint train their daughters that they are beautiful, and the tricks that these little boys play to mess with their heads. Where are the men, its sad that even today still STILL we have to ask this time old question where the hell are the men. Its time I white up, cause all these movies are based on white men and it seems to me I've been blinded myself., they get it, black folk always taking years to catch up. I am definatly Contemplating on switching teams.



The moral of this blog entry is men get a clue, watch blues clues to even find out what aclue is and learn how to follow them, cause it seems your brain isn't catching up to what your watching. And if you don't watch chick flicks then I see your dilemma, cause youve probably never had a girl to watch it with. But then you have no excuse, you should be watching to try and find a girl in the first place. Black men just have too much pride to be a man, they rather not be one and maintain their "manly hood', and woe to the black women that allow their man to act and treat them any old way instead of the way we ought to be treated.  Men try having meaningful conversations, being respectful, treating her like how you would treat your mom or your child, in terms of respect, and love and see where it goes cause you never know. There would be less hoes in the world and guys i know you may think hoes are a good thing, but imagine when you have a daughter, you can say what you want but you never know, I bet them hoes fathers didn't think they would turn that way, and not all of their daddies are dead beats so check yourself. Think before you act, think about the future and her past, especially cause you aint tryna catch nothing condoms can still get you pregnant and risk of an STD, just saying homie!

GET A CLUE!